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I've got REAL with these two loving smiling ladies!

Both are wonderful mentors to me!

So you got REAL? I sure hope so! There should be no better place to look than your church if you go to one. This is the place were we should be able to be looked upon deeper rather just glance by someone. Now if you are a believer then you should do this for everyone. I'll explain this further by sharing what God has been doing in and around me for some time now.

Now before I could fully understand the fullness of REAL there were things I needed to realize and deeply learn. To me, there seems to be a spectrum by which we can view relationships other than the titles "acquaintance, co-wacko, co-worker, BFFL, BFF, LYLAS (love you like a sister), bestie, sister, sistah, Siesta, etc etc.....See the bottom line is that you simply do not know what is going on in someones life unless you look deeper. Perhaps you only glance at people so as to protect yourself and not be vulnerable to the things or with the people that come with looking deeper. Or maybe you find yourself around people who appear, at least to you, to have "it" altogether. (Trust me they don't.)

I'm not sure what end of the spectrum you are on but we have all been on any section of it at some point in our lives.

For those who thought I had it altogether, they did not realize that deep inside I was struggling with a challenging depression. I would do the things I was supposed to do because they had become habit in my life and in my heart but the JOY of it was absent or distant. And then to top that off no one seemed to have noticed that there was something going on at a deeper level. I just felt judged for not doing a good enough job here or there. But to "everyone's" defense - I did not even know I was depressed! So to accuse them of failing when it was hard for me to see would be unfair. But on the other end to say I put on my smile or my mask so no one would know wasn't intentional but later revealed to me as true. See life was very difficult for me for a solid 2 - 2 1/2 years. Little did I know it had begun its ugly process shortly before October of 2007.

One place I have been is actually what guided me into the depression was in the area of protecting myself. I protected myself right into isolation! This is wheree my depression began. Ironic isn't it? To learn that protecting myself lead to depression is a huge eye opener. But see when you are depressed you feel dead inside, hence the lack of JOY, but it is proven in the Word of God:

Matthew 10:39 (New Living Translation - important for words)

"If you cling to your life, you will lose it; but if you give up your life for me, you will find it."

When we protect our lives we push God right out of that role and fulfill this scripture. I find it interesting the Lord showed me this scripture at the very beginning, prior to 10/07, but unfortunately I had only allowed its application to one incident instead of over my whole life. My journey began with the Truth right before my eyes but I still missed it! Had I not missed this key of Truth I might not have gone so long without JOY!

Psalm 5:11 (NKJV - a must for word's sake)

"But let all those rejoice who put their trust in You;

Let them ever shout for joy, because You defend them;

Let those also who love Your name Be joyful in You."

Now that these truths are deeper within me, I hope to show you the correlation to all this and having REAL friends. See one avenue through which the Lord guided me away from depression was allowing me to be rehired with a previous employer. This place has been safe for me - safer than any other place. This is good and true because I do mean the only only only only place I felt safe and built up! Yes you read that right: the only place I felt safe and built up! Now, I must add Lavernia Baptist Church in Lavernia, TX. This church made me feel at home for the two visits in which I was actually "doing the thing" while feeling so little joy and they loved me, they accepted me and allowed me to serve in my calling! Bless you all, Lavernia ladies you Rock for our ROCK! You provided me a soft place to fall by way of sharing what the Lord is doing in my life. You bless my very soul!!!

If you are thinking there are implications to my office and Lavernia BC being the only safe places unfortunately you are right!  I felt the need to protect myself every single other place I was.

So what has changed?

I'm so glad you asked!!!

Jesus!!! Jesus Jesus Jesus! He sets the captive free even when, especially when, the captor is you!

Now I not only seek what is REAL but I also seek to be REAL. I looking forward to this journey and hope you will join me with the next few blog posts and let's Get REAL together!

Abiding Still,

What do you crave?

Romans 14:20, "Do not destroy the work of God for the sake of food. All food is clean, but it is wrong for a man to eat anything that causes someone else to stumble." NIV (c) 1984



We eat for for more than mere satisfaction - we eat to be filled. It is a such a struggle we face daily to be fully satisfied ~ pun definitely intended. I don't know about you but I find myself these days eating for relaxation. I seek foods that promote endorphins and serotonin boosts! aka COMFORT FOOD! Wow, what does that reveal about my faith & perspective toward my Father?

In Psalm 119, I see that I am comforted by His laws, His ways, and HIS WORD (the Bread of Life). In Isaiah and the Beatitudes, I see that when I mourn I am comforted by Him. So if food takes that role - His Place - then I am still not satisfied, not filled, and continue to long for more.

Because I was Made to Crave - HIM!

Too many times we turn to others and other things instead of Him to filled in that area where we fill unsatisfied. I can go to any one of the Minor Prophets and find how the Loving Lord comforted His people and their land. I can look to 2nd Corinthians and discover the many ways to be comforted by God directly, His people, and most of all His Holy Spirit which was sent as a promise to continually give me (us) comfort.

You know I had never really given much thought to eating for the majority of my life. I have never struggled with weight in the sense of a medical opinion but only in a self-condeming way. But then I noticed the hold that popcorn had on me I popped to attention! Those fluffy white kernels send my serotonin levels soarin' and my endorphins roaring. I feel uplifted...hmmmmmm ~ This could be an issue! (Shhhh, it's my 'pop-secret'!!!)

But see just one of the things that the Holy Spirit has promised to me is HIS power; therefore, I am EMPOWERED with the power that brought Christ back from the dead! (Ephesians 1:17-19)

I have begun a journey with this book by Lysa TerKeurst called Made to Crave. My friend Angela is guiding us through it, being a certified fitness instructor as well as a personal trainer, Angela can help guide us in this journey with much needed facts and encouragement! I am determined to put food in its proper role in my life and allow God to be the one reigning over  that area which creates my need for comfort!

1 Corinthians 6:12, "“Everything is permissible for me”—but not everything is beneficial. “Everything is permissible for me”—but I will not be mastered by anything." NIV (c) 1984 ~~~~~~~ not even food!


Zecharia 4:6, "‘Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,’ says the LORD Almighty."

To sum it up, this book, MADE TO CRAVE, seems to be making an impact on me. By the power of the Holy Spirit, Lysa's testimony, and the fruit of self-control I am learning a little more about Jesus and what He wants for me. Truth is overflowing from this book through the spiritual and realistic application of God's Holy Word to my daily life.
Allow me to add a little about the author, Lysa Terkeurst. I've not been officially requested to review this book but let me tell you that I just can't help myself!

Lysa TerKeurst is a New York Times Best Selling author and speaker who helps everyday women live an adventure of faith through following Jesus Christ. As president of Proverbs 31 Ministries, Lysa has led thousands to make their walk with God an invigorating journey. For over 15 years, her message has enabled women to:

Make the Bible come alive whenever you read it.

Discover how to develop inner peace and security in any situation.

Replace doubt, regret, and envy with truth, confidence, and praise.

Stop unhealthy cycles of striving and learn to love who you are.

Sense God responding to your prayers.

You do not want to miss the rest of her story so click on over to her website and check it out plus all the other books she has to offer!


Abiding Still

Vision - Sight - The ability to rest

This first two weeks of scripture memory for me seemed like it went by very quickly. I took the challenge to join in on the Siesta Scripture Memory Team with Beth Moore - Siesta Mama and all us other gals. I chose 1 Corinthians 13:12 in the New Living Translation. If you did not know this the NLT add a BUNCH of words but these were words worth memorizing!!!

"Now we see things imperfectly, like puzzling reflections in a mirror, but then we will see things with perfect clarity. All I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely." NLT

When I say that this word has been relevant in my life I-kid-you-not! So many things I see right here right now even at this very moment I am typing this post is extremely puzzling! But it is so good that God knows everything including me COMPLETELY!

I am so grateful to my heavenly Father for leading me to this verse! It brings me rest when put to the test. I can rest in knowing that I don't have to see-it-all. I can rest knowing that He-Has-It-ALL! I can rest knowing that He is there on this side and the eternal one. I can rest because He knows what is best for me and for all of us. I never once thought that a verse on "vision" would help me rest but think about it. When you have to strain to "see" it is tiring. When you strain to "see" you become the cloudy image.

I can rest in the "but then"....where do you find your rest?

Abiding Still,

SIESTA Scripture Memory Team 2011

The first on my list for memorization in 2011 seems very fitting to me! We often ask for the eyes of the Lord to see things as He does and to see them clearly. We also ask and sing our request for our eyes to be opened so for me I choose and NEED 1 Corinthians 13:12. I have picked the New Living Translation for this verse. This just seemed so fitting for me personally. So many things this last year hit me that I could not see coming or if and when I did I just could not fully understand it...it was as if "it were in a mirror".

1 Corinthians 13:12, "Now we see things imperfectly, like puzzling reflections in a mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity. All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely." NLT

Our eyes fools us; to "see" something also implies that we comprehend it, as God fully does us! Our sight is limited and incomplete. Our sight to often lacks vision to put it plainly. This last year brings some mirror images to my mind that just flat wears me out to try to make sense of so I will trust Him who knows me. The year before cloudier still and the year before that...etc. You get my drift...imperfect...unclear...incomplete! I must also be mindful not to focus on the circumstances but on the ONE who holds them all. When I am tired and feel that I can't do one more thing...I will trust the One who brought me to it because He knows me!

He Sees Me!!!

El Roi!

Recently I began following a new blog named A Rose in Texas and the latest post by Tammy fit spot on with my first verse. Read her post here: A Rose in Texas: Let There Be Light. Most of all I wanted to share a quote from her post:

There is one element that must be present for any of us to experience the miracle of vision - Light! Without light, we cannot see. No matter how perfect our "vision", if we live in darkness, we experience only blindness.





"This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in Him there is no darkness at all." 1 John 1:5

I "see" her point! I "see" John's point! And now I want all I "see" to point to Christ!
Trying to see correctly by viewing through a mirror or trying your best to make out aspects of items in the dark create puzzling and backward images. I want to see beyond this life and beyond the length of my own arm and have a perspective straight from my Heavenly Home. If it doesn't make sense here I want to fully trust that He has it under His capable control and the Lord God Almighty indeed has my very best in mind - He sees it! He knows it! He knows me!

It is not too late to join in if you want the best challenge of 2011 to be truly mind changing! Go here to Living Proof Ministries blog for instructions and here to post up! Get a spiral of index cards and begin your journey of knowing Him more and the journey toward clear vision!

Oh and let us know if you are joining in!
 
Abiding Still,
Chel